Gerry
Gerry
Tom D
Tom D
Tom D
Thursday 26th June 2025
Join Gerry and Tom D as they discuss Tom's journey through alcoholism and recovery, offering hope and practical advice for those facing addiction.
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29 minutes
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Sobriety Success Stories
Creative Recovery Journeys
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Episode Overview
- Alcohol became Tom's coping mechanism from a young age.
- Family dynamics played a significant role in Tom's drinking habits.
- Seeking help and attending AA meetings were crucial turning points.
- Gratitude and staying connected are vital for maintaining sobriety.
- Recovery is a lifelong journey requiring constant vigilance.
Recovery equals Life, as far as I'm concerned. I have a life that's better than it ever has been.
In this episode of "I'm Sober Today", Gerry welcomes his friend Tom D, who shares his rollercoaster journey through alcoholism and recovery. Tom recounts how he started drinking at the tender age of 14, initially to fit in and feel comfortable. Despite being raised by parents who abstained from alcohol, Tom found himself in a family where drinking was the norm. As he grew older, alcohol became his coping mechanism, whether he was happy, sad, or angry.
Tom's story is a candid exploration of how alcohol took over his life, leading him to become what he calls a 'functioning alcoholic'. His tale is peppered with anecdotes about his career as a police officer and the stress that came with it, which he often used as an excuse for his drinking habits. Tom talks about the turning point in his life — an ultimatum from his wife — which led him to finally seek help and attend meetings.
His journey to sobriety wasn't straightforward, but through becoming a greeter and getting involved in AA, he learned how to be a better father, husband, and friend. Tom emphasises the importance of staying connected and practising constant vigilance to avoid falling back into old habits. He reflects on how recovery has taught him to appreciate life beyond materialism and how he's learned to live in the moment.
Gerry and Tom's conversation is sprinkled with light-hearted moments, like measuring distances by beer consumption or reminiscing about the 'six-beer lawn'. Yet, beneath the humour lies a powerful message about the need for gratitude and the continuous work required in recovery. Tom's story is a testament to the idea that recovery is a lifelong journey, filled with ups and downs but ultimately leading to a more fulfilling life. Why should you listen?
If you're curious about how someone can transform their life from chaos to clarity, Tom's story offers hope and practical advice for anyone struggling with addiction.