Tools for Healthy Dating Kim V. SLAA speaker

Tools for Healthy Dating Kim V. SLAA speaker

In this episode of Recovery Radio Network, Kim V., a seasoned SLAA (Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous) speaker, opens up about her journey through recovery and shares invaluable tools for healthy dating. Kim's honest and sometimes humorous reflections on her experiences offer a refreshing perspective on the complexities of dating while in recovery.

She candidly discusses how she had to meditate deeply on the topic, drawing parallels between the 12 tools for healthy dating and the 12 steps of recovery, making it relatable for anyone familiar with the program. Kim's story is filled with raw honesty as she recounts her past struggles with unhealthy relationships and how they often mirrored the abuse from her childhood.

She emphasizes the importance of hitting rock bottom and seeking resources like therapy and support groups to build a healthier approach to dating. One of the key takeaways from her talk is the concept of 'spiritual deficits'—when your values don't align with your behaviours—and how finding spiritual fulfilment can help bridge that gap. She also touches on the importance of setting boundaries, recognising character defects, and being brutally honest with oneself in dating situations.

Kim shares how she learned to identify when a relationship was unhealthy and the significance of introducing potential partners to one's social circle as a litmus test for compatibility. Her reflections are not just about avoiding unhealthy relationships but also about fostering a positive relationship with oneself and one's higher power. Kim's insights are both practical and deeply personal, making this episode a must-listen for anyone in recovery looking to navigate the dating world with more awareness and self-respect.

So, if you're looking for some heartfelt advice on how to approach dating in a healthier way while in recovery, this episode is packed with wisdom and practical tips that you won't want to miss.