Danish Bashir
Danish Bashir
Treat a Narcissist the way they treat you
Treat a Narcissist the way they treat you
Treat a Narcissist the way they treat you
Tuesday 23rd April 2024
Explore how narcissists react when you treat them the way they treat you. Danish Bashir reveals five key reactions and shares his personal experiences.
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Episode Overview
- Narcissists react with rage and shock when their behaviour is mirrored.
- They escalate their abusive tactics to regain control.
- Emotional revivification is used to manipulate and guilt-trip victims.
- Narcissists often portray themselves as victims to shift blame.
- They may label you with disorders to deflect responsibility.
They see you as a weak, naive doormat that has no voice of its own and is okay with being taken advantage of
Ever wondered what would happen if you treated a narcissist the way they treat you? Danish Bashir, a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Professional, tackles this intriguing question in this episode. He explores five key reactions you can expect from a narcissist when you mirror their behaviour. From rage-filled shock to escalating their abuse, the episode offers a deep dive into the complex dynamics of narcissistic relationships.
Danish shares his own experiences and provides a compassionate perspective on why narcissists react so strongly when faced with their own tactics. He explains that narcissists are conscious of their actions and how wrong they are, but when their manipulative strategies fail, they feel powerless and vulnerable. This vulnerability often leads them to try and reassert control through anger, intimidation, or manipulation.
The episode also covers emotional revivification, where narcissists dredge up past emotionally loaded events to manipulate you into feeling sorry for them. Danish discusses how they may portray themselves as victims to shift the focus away from their own behaviour and make you look like the aggressor. This classic DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) tactic is used to isolate and alienate you from others.
Lastly, Danish touches on how narcissists may label you with a disorder to further deflect blame and maintain their sense of superiority. They might call you bipolar or a narcissist to make every issue in the relationship your fault. Through personal anecdotes and broader insights, Danish provides a supportive and understanding narrative that resonates with anyone dealing with narcissistic abuse. This episode is a must-listen for those looking to understand the intricate ways narcissists operate and how to protect themselves.
Tune in to gain valuable insights and start your journey towards healing.