Tony's Journey: From Self-Reliance to Surrender
Episode Overview
Surrendering control to God can lead to true transformation. Childhood experiences can deeply impact adult behaviour and choices. Community and accountability are crucial in recovery. Relapse is often part of the recovery journey but can lead to deeper understanding. Faith-based programs offer unique support and guidance.
"I was transformed by beholding the glory of the Lord."
What makes someone turn their life over to a higher power? In this episode of Real Recovery, Tony shares his remarkable journey from self-reliance to surrendering his will to God. Growing up in Los Angeles during the 70s, Tony faced abandonment early on when his father left, leaving his family to struggle financially. This hardship, however, set the stage for Tony's eventual spiritual awakening.
His story takes us through the highs and lows of his life, from a successful career in accounting to battling addiction in the wine industry. Tony candidly recounts his struggles with self-reliance, a trait ingrained from childhood, and how it led him down a path of isolation and substance abuse. It was only when he was truly 'starving'—not just hungry—that he found himself turning back to God.
Through faith-based recovery programs and a renewed commitment to his spiritual life, Tony began to experience true transformation. Hosts Bill Arnold and George Fraser guide the conversation with humour and insight, making it clear that recovery is not a solo journey. Tony's story is a testament to the power of community, accountability, and faith in overcoming addiction.
His honesty about the challenges he faced, including relapse and the eventual dissolution of his marriage, offers hope and guidance for anyone facing similar battles. If you're curious about how faith can play a pivotal role in recovery or if you're seeking inspiration from someone who's been there and back, this episode is a must-listen. How does one find the strength to let go of control and trust in something greater? Tony's story might just have the answer.