Danish Bashir
Danish Bashir
Why a Narcissist can stay Married for decades
Why a Narcissist can stay Married for decades
Why a Narcissist can stay Married for decades
Sunday 2nd June 2024
Discover why narcissists stay in long-term marriages and the complex dynamics at play. Gain insights and practical advice from Danish Bashir.
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Episode Overview
- Narcissists stay in long-term marriages for unique gains they can't find elsewhere.
- Parentification: Narcissists turn partners into parental figures to meet unmet childhood needs.
- Cultural expectations and social validation can trap narcissists in long-term marriages.
- Financial exploitation and emotional manipulation are common tactics used by narcissists.
- Understanding these dynamics can help you protect yourself and reclaim your life.
At their core, a narcissist is nothing but an underdeveloped two-year-old kid stuck in an adult's body
Ever wondered why some narcissists stay in long-term marriages despite their need for constant novelty? In this episode, Danish Bashir, a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Professional, dives into the perplexing reasons behind this behaviour. Danish explains that narcissists remain in these relationships because they get something unique from their partners that they can't find elsewhere. This 'something' can vary widely - from emotional support to financial gain, or even social status.
Danish uses vivid analogies to illustrate how narcissists exploit their partners, likening it to a wasp laying eggs in another insect's body. The host also explores the concept of 'parentification', where the narcissist turns their partner into a parental figure to fulfil their unmet childhood needs. Danish shares personal anecdotes, including his own experience with narcissistic parents, to highlight the dysfunctional dynamics at play.
He also discusses how cultural expectations and the need for social validation can trap narcissists in long-term marriages. If you're grappling with a narcissistic partner or trying to understand the complexities of such relationships, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Tune in to learn how to protect yourself and reclaim your life.