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Heal from within after Narcissistic Abuse with Danish
Danish Bashir explains why kissing a narcissist feels robotic and explores the emotional void behind their lack of genuine affection.
10:26•14 Apr 2024
The Robotic Kiss: Understanding Intimacy with Narcissists
Episode Overview
- Kissing a narcissist often feels robotic and lacks genuine affection.
- Narcissists use intimacy as a tool for control and manipulation.
- Different types of narcissists have varied approaches to intimacy.
- Trauma bonding involves complex biochemical changes that make it hard to leave toxic relationships.
- The problem lies with the narcissist, not with the survivor's attractiveness or worth.
“You feel like you're kissing an inanimate object. The narcissist is not there. You're literally interacting with a meat suit.”
Ever wondered why kissing a narcissist feels so robotic and unsatisfying? In this episode, Danish Bashir, a certified clinical trauma specialist, dives deep into the unsettling experience of physical intimacy with narcissists. He explains how narcissists often use intimacy as a tool for control, leaving their partners feeling confused and deprived of genuine affection. Danish shares that while some narcissists may start off with passionate kisses to impress, it quickly becomes clear that there's no real connection behind their actions.
The episode also discusses the different types of narcissists and how their approach to intimacy varies, from hypersexualising relationships to faking affection entirely. Danish's insights shed light on the trauma bonding process, where the brain's biochemical reactions make it difficult for victims to break free from these toxic relationships. By understanding these dynamics, survivors can begin to see that the problem lies with the narcissist, not with themselves.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to comprehend the complexities of narcissistic abuse and take steps towards healing.
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