Why Narcissists Loathe You More When You're Ill
Episode Overview
Narcissists demand attention and care when they are ill but show no empathy when their partners are sick. Narcissists may abandon or abuse their partners during times of illness. They often blame their partners for their own health issues. Narcissists' behaviour changes drastically when they need something versus when they are needed. Understanding these behaviours can help survivors seek appropriate support.
They keep you around, give you attention, only in the hope of getting some return, which is supply.
Ever wondered why a narcissist seems to despise you even more when you're under the weather? In this episode, Danish Bashir, a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Professional, dives into the baffling and often heartbreaking behaviour of narcissists when their partners fall ill. Danish uses skits and real-life examples to illustrate the stark contrast between how narcissists act when they're sick versus when their partners are.
When a narcissist falls ill, they demand attention, become docile, and expect everyone to cater to their needs. But when it's their partner who's unwell, they show zero empathy and can even become abusive. Danish shares harrowing stories, including one about a woman with stage 4 cancer who was abandoned by her narcissistic husband during her treatment. He explains that narcissists see their partners' illness as an inconvenience and a threat to their supply of attention and admiration.
They may even blame their partners for their own health issues, showcasing their hypocrisy and lack of empathy. Danish's candid discussion sheds light on the extreme behaviours of narcissists and offers support for those who have experienced similar situations. By exposing these behaviours, Danish aims to help survivors understand they are not alone and encourage them to seek the help they need. Don't miss this eye-opening episode that will leave you questioning the true nature of narcissistic relationships.