Why Narcissists Avoid Being at Home
Episode Overview
Narcissists seek constant stimulation to avoid facing their reality. They often mirror your behaviour to create a false sense of connection. Not all narcissists are extroverts; some prefer staying home but are equally manipulative. The key trait is their need for distraction, whether through social interactions or digital means. Understanding these behaviours can help you navigate relationships with narcissists.
Narcissists are emotionally stunned childlike beings who need constant stimulation.
Ever wondered why some narcissists can't seem to stay at home? In this eye-opening episode, Danish Bashir, a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Professional, unpacks the reasons behind this restless behaviour. Narcissists are driven by sensations and the need for constant stimulation. Being at home forces them to confront their own reality, something they desperately avoid. Instead, they seek out new experiences and sources of 'supply'—whether it's admiration, attention, or validation—from the outside world.
Danish compares this behaviour to that of a child who is driven by sensations but lacks innocence, making their actions rooted in greed and malevolence. The episode dives into the psychology of narcissists, explaining why they might mirror your behaviour to create a false sense of connection. This tactic is designed to trap you into thinking you've found your ideal partner. But once you're hooked, their true colours show, and you'll find them constantly seeking new ways to exploit others.
Danish also clarifies the difference between extroverts and narcissists, pointing out that while both may enjoy social settings, the motivations are vastly different. You'll also learn about introverted narcissists who prefer to stay home but are equally manipulative. They might spend hours on social media or video games, seeking validation and distraction in different forms.
The key takeaway is that whether they're always out or glued to their screens at home, narcissists are perpetually chasing distractions to avoid facing their own emptiness. If you're looking to understand why narcissists behave this way and how it impacts those around them, this episode is a must-listen. It offers valuable insights into the mind of a narcissist and provides practical advice for those dealing with such individuals.