174: Natural Healing Show with Catherine Carrigan - Episode 174174: Natural Healing Show with Catherine Carrigan - Episode 174
UK Health Radio Podcast
Catherine Kerrigan explains how identifying and honouring core human needs can shift depression, anxiety and reliance on psychiatric drugs. She outlines key categories of needs and shares a practical framework for communicating them in relationships.
46:25•17 May 2026
Understanding Your Core Needs with Catherine Kerrigan
Episode Overview
- Understanding and meeting your core needs is presented as essential for genuine happiness and reduced reliance on drugs, overwork or escape behaviours.
- A clear distinction is made between needs (without which you are not okay) and wants (which are fulfilling but not essential).
- Common human needs are grouped into categories such as connection, physical wellbeing, honesty, play, peace, autonomy, meaning, and the balance of certainty and uncertainty.
- Unmet needs are linked to depression, anxiety, chronic health problems and relationship difficulties, especially for those with histories of abuse or narcissistic families.
- Alison Armstrong’s four-step "great ask" is shared as a practical way to communicate needs in relationships while respecting the other person’s needs.
“The only way to feel truly happy in life is to understand and meet your core needs.”
Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey? This conversation with medical intuitive healer and author Catherine Kerrigan centres on one simple but often ignored question: what do you actually need to be okay? Catherine shares how understanding her own needs helped her come off lithium and antidepressants after 18 years, and stay drug-free for decades.
As she puts it, "The only way to feel truly happy in life is to understand and meet your core needs." From working with clients on six continents, she’s seen the same pattern: people drowning in depression, anxiety or overwork while never asking what their soul is crying out for.
She breaks down the difference between needs and wants, then walks through key categories of human needs drawn from nonviolent communication: connection, physical wellbeing, honesty, play, peace, autonomy, meaning, plus Tony Robbins’ pair of certainty and uncertainty. You’ll hear real-life stories, like the client whose chronic pain was linked to hiding her sexuality, and the woman whose low mood was tied less to "chemical imbalance" and more to lack of sunlight.
Catherine also introduces Alison Armstrong’s "great ask" – a four-step way to say "I need", spell out what that looks like, explain what it gives you, and ask what your partner might need from you in return. It’s practical, a bit disarming, and designed to reduce drama rather than add to it. This episode is especially useful if you’ve grown up in abuse, lived with narcissists, or used substances or overwork to escape an unhappy life.
Instead of more numbing, Catherine invites you to build a life that fits your needs so well that escape no longer feels necessary. So what might your top five needs be today?

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