#244 - Mindset Monday: The Myth of the “Good Dad”#244 - Mindset Monday: The Myth of the “Good Dad”
Till The Wheels Fall Off
Matt Robinson questions the myth of the 'good dad', urging fathers to embrace deeper roles beyond surface-level involvement, highlighting the link between being a good husband and a good father.
1:20:44•22 Sept 2025
Rethinking Fatherhood: Beyond the Myth of the 'Good Dad'
Episode Overview
- Being a good dad is tied to being a good husband; they are inseparable.
- Surface-level involvement doesn't equate to effective fatherhood.
- Emotional safety and integrity are crucial components of parenting.
- Visibility bias can skew perceptions of what makes a 'good dad'.
- Societal standards for fatherhood need to be raised.
“"You cannot be a good dad if you are a bad husband."”
What does it truly mean to be a 'good dad'? In this episode of 'Till The Wheels Fall Off', Matt Robinson takes listeners on a reflective journey through the societal myths surrounding fatherhood. With candid anecdotes from his own life, Matt questions the age-old narrative that simply showing up makes one a good dad. He argues that being a good father is intricately tied to being a good husband, highlighting that you can't have one without the other.
The discussion goes beyond just attending games and parties; it’s about creating emotional safety and demonstrating respect and integrity at home. Matt challenges the idea that financial provision and fun activities are enough, urging fathers to dig deeper into their roles. He also explores the psychological factors that lead families to cling to the notion of the 'good dad', such as visibility bias and cognitive dissonance.
This episode is not just for fathers but for anyone interested in understanding the complexities of modern parenting and relationships. It’s a call to raise the bar for fatherhood, ensuring it encompasses genuine partnership and emotional presence. So, are you ready to rethink what it means to be a good dad?

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