Misusing Recovery Language: Paige's Take
Episode Overview
Avoid using recovery language as a weapon in relationships. Reframe accusatory statements to foster understanding. Use language as a tool for self-improvement, not control. Reflect on how your words align with your values. Communicate needs for trust and safety effectively.
"Am I using this as a tool for connection or a tool for control?"
Ever thought about how recovery language can sometimes be misused? Paige Robinson dives into this tricky territory with honesty and clarity. She highlights the tendency to use recovery language as a weapon, turning words meant for healing into tools for blame or control. Paige paints a vivid picture of how this happens, sharing anecdotes that many in recovery might find all too familiar.
From tagging partners in accusatory social media posts to misusing therapy terms like 'gaslighting' or 'narcissism', she explains how these actions can derail personal growth and relationship healing. The episode isn't just about pointing out problems, though. Paige offers practical advice on how to communicate more effectively and compassionately. She suggests reframing accusatory statements into ones that foster understanding and connection. For instance, instead of saying "You're not doing the work," she recommends expressing personal needs for safety and trust.
Paige's approach is all about encouraging listeners to use recovery language as a tool for self-improvement rather than a means to win arguments. Her insights aim to help individuals reflect on their use of language and ensure it's aligned with their values and healing goals. So, are you ready to rethink how you use your words in recovery? This episode might just be the nudge you need.