Ep339 – Watch Your MouthEp339 – Watch Your Mouth
Untoxicated Podcast
Sheri and Matt Salis explore the impact of word choice on addiction recovery and emotional safety, sharing personal stories and insights on fostering healing through language.
1:15:53•16 Mar 2026
Choosing Words Wisely: A Journey Through Recovery and Relationships
Episode Overview
- Language shapes our understanding of addiction.
- Harsh words can close doors to healing.
- Emotional safety is key in recovery.
- Meeting people where they are fosters healing.
- Word choice impacts willingness to seek help.
“"It's about meeting people where they are."”
What drives someone to seek a life without alcohol? In this episode of the Untoxicated Podcast, Sheri and Matt Salis tackle the complexities of word choice in the context of addiction and recovery. Matt's tendency to use harsh, stigmatized language comes under scrutiny as Sheri offers a more nuanced perspective. They explore the impact of language on emotional safety and the delicate balance between addressing issues directly and avoiding unnecessary conflict.
With candid anecdotes about their personal journey, including a humorous debate over paint colours and moving woes, they illustrate how the words we choose can either heal or harm. The episode delves into the distinction between terms like 'alcoholic' and 'gray-area drinker,' highlighting how labels can affect one's willingness to seek help. Matt reflects on his past use of emotionally charged words, recognising that sometimes softer language can open doors to healing that harsh words might slam shut.
As they unpack these themes, they offer listeners insights into maintaining emotional safety in relationships, especially when dealing with the aftermath of addiction. Sheri and Matt's honest dialogue provides a compassionate look at how language shapes our understanding of addiction and recovery. Their discussion is not just about choosing words wisely but also about creating environments where healing conversations can flourish. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the tricky waters of addiction recovery and relationship dynamics.
How do you choose your words when discussing sensitive topics?

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