TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson
TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson
#291 - Mindset Monday: The “What About Her?” Trap
#291 - Mindset Monday: The “What About Her?” Trap
#291 - Mindset Monday: The “What About Her?” Trap
Monday 9th February 2026
Matt Robinson addresses the 'What About Her?' trap, urging men in recovery to own their actions and lead with patience and consistency.
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TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson
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Sobriety Toolkit
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Healing Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
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Episode Overview
- Men in recovery should take full ownership of past actions.
- Creating a safe environment is crucial for relationship healing.
- Patience and consistency are key to rebuilding trust.
- Understand that partner reactions are often trauma responses.
- True leadership involves leading by example without keeping score.
"You don't get to wreck the foundation and then complain about the dust."
What drives someone to seek a life without alcohol? In this no-nonsense episode of Till The Wheels Fall Off, Matt Robinson tackles the 'What About Her?' trap, a common pitfall for men in recovery. Matt's straightforward approach challenges men to take ownership of their past actions and resist the urge to blame their partners for current relationship struggles.
With a touch of humour and a lot of tough love, Matt shares his personal journey of rebuilding trust and creating a safe environment for healing. He emphasises that true leadership involves patience and consistency, not quick fixes or scorekeeping. This episode is a call to action for men to lead by example, even when it's uncomfortable, and to understand the deep-rooted effects of betrayal trauma on their partners.
Matt’s candid reflections provide both a wake-up call and a guide for those looking to truly mend their relationships. Are you ready to embrace the challenge of real change and lead with love?