308 - What is the job of a sponsor and what is NOT THE JOB of a sponsor...

308 - What is the job of a sponsor and what is NOT THE JOB of a sponsor...

Real Recovery Talk

In this episode, Ben and I have a conversation around sponsorship. We discuss what we believe is the job of a sponsor, and we also discuss what we believe is not the job of a sponsor. There are people out there that tend to have these lines blurred,...

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46:156 Sept 2023

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Understanding Sponsorship in Recovery: What It Is and What It Isn’t

Episode Overview

  • A sponsor's job is to guide their sponsee through the 12 steps and the Big Book, providing support and wisdom
  • Sponsors should not be involved in managing their sponsee's life, finding them jobs, or lending them money
  • The hosts emphasize the importance of setting clear boundaries and adhering to the principles of sponsorship
  • They share their frustrations with sponsors who blur these lines, enabling unhealthy behaviors and taking advantage of vulnerable individuals
  • The hosts remain committed to helping individuals find success in their recovery journeys
A sponsor's job is to guide their sponsee through the 12 steps and the Big Book, providing support and wisdom. However, they should not be involved in managing their sponsee's life, finding them jobs, or lending them money.

Ever wondered what a sponsor should and shouldn't do in the world of addiction recovery? In this episode of 'Real Recovery Talk', Tom Conrad and Ben dive into the nuanced role of a sponsor. They break down the core responsibilities, like guiding someone through the 12 steps and the Big Book, and stress what a sponsor shouldn't be doing, such as managing a sponsee's personal life or finances.

Tom and Ben's candid discussion reveals their frustrations with sponsors who overstep boundaries, potentially harming those they're meant to help. With personal anecdotes and a touch of humor, they highlight the importance of setting clear limits to foster healthy, supportive relationships. If you're navigating recovery or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights into maintaining effective sponsorship dynamics.

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