320: Addicted To Love with Lacy Bentley

320: Addicted To Love with Lacy Bentley

In this insightful episode of The Addicted Mind Podcast, host Duane Osterlind welcomes Lacy Bentley, an esteemed recovery mentor and coach, specializing in the areas of love and sex addiction among women. Lacy shares her compelling journey of self-discovery and recovery, shedding light on the complexities of addiction that many women face.

The discussion begins with Lacy's early exposure to erotic novels and pornographic anime, known as hentai, which unknowingly fostered an addiction to fantasy that deeply influenced her adult relationships. She candidly explores how these early experiences led to patterns of escape and avoidance, affecting her marriage and personal connections. Duane and Lacy delve into the broader implications of sex addiction, emphasizing the importance of understanding its roots.

They discuss how pornography can impact emotional health and relationship dynamics, particularly for women who often struggle to find resources tailored to their experiences. A key focus of the conversation is empowerment. Lacy stresses the necessity for women to set boundaries and rediscover their identity across physical, emotional, and spiritual dimensions. The healing process, she notes, involves fostering genuine connections, having meaningful conversations, and learning to love amidst pain and disagreement.

Lacy also talks about her new book, "Addicted To Love," which provides valuable insights and guidance for women on their journey to recovery. Duane encourages listeners to explore the resources available through Lacy's work and the Addicted Mind community, highlighting the importance of support in overcoming addiction. This episode serves as an informative and hopeful resource for anyone looking to understand love and sex addiction, offering practical advice and encouragement for those seeking to break free from its grasp.