#45 The Hidden Impact of Childhood on Your Emotions & Behaviour#45 The Hidden Impact of Childhood on Your Emotions & Behaviour
The Trauma Recovery School
Explore how childhood trauma impacts emotions through the vagus nerve, and learn techniques for emotional regulation with Bonita Ackerman du Preez.
5:32•4 May 2025
Understanding Your Vagus Nerve: The Key to Emotional Healing
Episode Overview
- The vagus nerve is crucial for calming the body but can be disrupted by trauma.
- Early nurturing strengthens the vagus nerve; lack of it can lead to anxiety.
- Breathwork and somatic exercises help regulate the vagus nerve.
- Chronic stress and emotional disconnect may stem from a poorly functioning vagus nerve.
- With the right techniques, it's possible to retrain the vagus nerve for better emotional health.
“"Our vagus nerve is like that friend who needs to know everybody's business."”
In this eye-opening episode of The Trauma Recovery School, Bonita Ackerman du Preez takes you on a journey through the hidden impact of childhood experiences on your emotions and behaviour. Imagine your vagus nerve as a superhighway, constantly buzzing with information about your body's state. This nerve, which plays a key role in calming us down, can go haywire after trauma, leaving us in a constant state of heightened arousal.
Bonita explains how this affects everything from your heart rate to your ability to form connections. Bonita shares fascinating insights into how our vagus nerve develops from the womb and how nurturing relationships in early life strengthen it. But what happens if that nurturing is absent? You might find yourself battling chronic stress, anxiety, and even digestive issues. The episode highlights the importance of breathwork and somatic exercises in regulating this crucial nerve.
Bonita emphasises that with the right tools and practices, it's possible to retrain your vagus nerve to help you feel safe and connected again. Bonita's approach is both compassionate and practical, offering hope to those who feel trapped by their past. By focusing on actionable steps like breath control, she provides a roadmap for healing.
So, if you're curious about how childhood trauma might still be affecting you or you're looking for ways to manage anxiety and stress, this episode offers valuable guidance. Are you ready to learn how to calm your body's superhighway?

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