6 Years 331 days - Fucked Up Fridays

6 Years 331 days - Fucked Up Fridays

I'm Quitting Alcohol

David Boyle vents about being judged for his work choices, parenting stress and sleep experiments, then reads Dan’s chaotic Hamburg bar-scam story for Fucked Up Friday. The mix of sober reflection and outrageous past drinking drama gives a raw, funny glimpse into life after alcohol.

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15:2810 Apr 2026

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Sober Dad, Job Jabs and a Hamburg Strip-Club Scam

Episode Overview

  • Sobriety doesn’t shield you from social pressure; people may still judge unconventional life choices like not having a standard job.
  • Family comments, even from young kids, can cut deep and trigger doubts, despite years away from alcohol.
  • Tinkering with habits such as sleep routines and exercise becomes part of the sober toolkit for feeling better.
  • Drunken travel stories often involve risk, scams and regret, reminding many why they stopped drinking.
  • Sharing past chaos through humour can help people in recovery feel less alone and more able to laugh at old mistakes.
"My own flesh and blood turning on me… when is dadda gonna get a fucking job?"

Curious about how others manage their sobriety while life keeps throwing jabs? This episode of *I'm Quitting Alcohol* drops you straight into David Boyle’s messy, hilarious, very human week as a long-term sober bloke under fire. Boyle kicks off by ranting about the unexpected backlash he’s getting for not having a conventional job.

A colleague of his wife takes a swipe at him, then his five-year-old daughter lands the knockout line: “Mama, when is dadda gonna get a fucking job?” For someone over six years sober and chasing purpose, those little digs sting, and he lets you hear the frustration and absurdity of it all.

You’ll also hear him obsess over sleep, blue-blocker glasses and “zone 2” training, showing how sobriety doesn’t magically make life calm – it just means you’re facing it without booze as a buffer. Then it’s time for “Fucked Up Friday”, the weekly segment where listeners send in their wild drinking stories. This week’s star is Dan from England, who shares a chaotic lads’ trip to Hamburg in 2009.

What starts as a quick lap dance from “two South American babes” turns into a classic tourist scam, complete with €100 bottles of water, a grim bar in the red-light district, a growling bouncer, and a mad dash for the door.

As Dan puts it, “Just a few moments before, I was getting a lap dance, and now we’re in a bloody combat.” The episode suits people in recovery who miss the chaos of their drinking days but don’t want to go back, as well as anyone who just wants an honest, sweary laugh about past stupidity and current struggles. It’s short, sharp, and very Boyle.

So, whose side are you on – sober present you, or the part of you that still laughs at those old disasters?

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