Unmasking Narcissistic Equivocation: The Shape-Shifting Tactics of Narcissists
Episode Overview
Narcissists have no consistent personality, making them unpredictable. They use equivocation to manipulate and confuse their victims. Their behaviour is driven by a need for attention and admiration. Understanding these tactics can help survivors begin their healing journey. Recognising the signs of narcissistic manipulation is crucial for recovery.
Narcissists engage in a confusing form of self-expression called equivocation.
In this eye-opening episode, Danish Bashir dives deep into the baffling behaviour of narcissists, revealing how their fluid personalities create chaos and confusion for those around them. The episode, titled 'A Narcissist is Jack of all Trades Master of None', tackles the concept of narcissistic equivocation – a term that describes the ever-changing and contradictory nature of narcissists.
Danish, a certified clinical trauma specialist, explains how narcissists morph into whoever they need to be to get what they want, making it impossible to truly know who they are. This shape-shifting behaviour is not just confusing but can be incredibly damaging for those entangled in relationships with them. Danish shares personal anecdotes and insights from his professional experience to help listeners understand why narcissists lack a consistent set of values or a true self.
They might appear loving one moment and cold the next, all to maintain control and extract 'supply' – a term used to describe the attention and admiration they crave. The episode sheds light on how narcissists use ambiguous language and behaviours to keep their victims in a state of perpetual uncertainty. This tactic, known as equivocation, allows them to avoid responsibility and manipulate others more effectively.
Danish's candid discussion aims to provide clarity and support for survivors of narcissistic abuse, offering them tools to recognise these manipulative tactics and begin their healing journey. If you've ever felt like you're dealing with multiple people in one body or questioned your own sanity in a relationship with a narcissist, this episode is a must-listen. Danish’s engaging storytelling and expert advice make complex psychological concepts accessible and relatable.
Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the enigmatic world of narcissists and learn how to reclaim your sense of self.