Do Narcissists Ever Regret Hurting You? The Real Truth
Episode Overview
Narcissists don't feel genuine remorse for hurting others. Their regret is often about losing control or not exploiting enough. Personal anecdotes highlight the self-serving nature of narcissistic regret. Maintaining no contact is crucial for true recovery. Narcissists' remorse is more about self-pity and gaining sympathy.
Their regret is nothing but self-pity which they use to gain more supply.
Are you wondering if narcissists ever feel regret for the pain they cause? In this episode, Danish Bashir, a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Professional, dives deep into the complex emotions (or lack thereof) of narcissists. Danish explains that while narcissists may appear to feel regret, it's not the kind of remorse you might expect. Instead of regretting the harm they've done, they often regret losing control or not fully exploiting their victims.
Danish shares his personal experiences with his narcissistic parents to illustrate these points, showing how their so-called regret is more about self-pity and a loss of control rather than genuine remorse. He recounts how his father regretted sending him away, not because of the abuse that drove him to leave, but because it meant losing his grip on Danish. Similarly, his mother’s regrets were framed to gain sympathy and shift blame.
This episode is a must-listen if you're seeking clarity on the twisted logic of narcissists and their true motivations. Danish offers valuable insights and practical advice on why it's crucial to maintain no contact once you've broken free. He emphasises that returning to a narcissist will only lead to more pain and manipulation. So, if you're on a journey to heal from narcissistic abuse, this episode provides both understanding and encouragement to stay strong and move forward.