Ep 076 The Unashamedly Human Podcast with Guest Billy Mann

Ep 076 The Unashamedly Human Podcast with Guest Billy Mann

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49:036 Sept 2019

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Letting Go of the Story: Billy Mann on Quieting the Self and Loving Your Life

Episode Overview

  • Stepping back from work and coaching after serious illness can create space for genuine rest and psychological reset.
  • Seeing that the "self" and its stories are not solid truths makes difficult thoughts and feelings easier to meet with humour and perspective.
  • Understanding how thoughts create feelings fosters compassion for teenagers, partners and yourself, especially in stressful times like exams.
  • Hands-off parenting, based on trust and clear boundaries rather than constant control, can ease tension at home.
  • Letting go of the urge to constantly seek, fix or improve yourself can bring back spontaneity, connection and simple enjoyment of everyday life.
There’s a danger of stopping living… we spend so much time seeking that we forget to live.

Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey? This conversation between coach and salon owner Billy Mann and host Jacquie Forde offers a gentle, funny and very human look at what happens when life knocks you flat and all your spiritual understanding is put to the test. Billy shares a string of health scares, a frightening autoimmune episode on a family holiday, and the emotional crash that followed.

Even with years of studying spiritual principles and non-dual teachings, he admits, "there’s a danger of stopping living… we spend so much time seeking that we forget to live." From there, the chat becomes a relaxed, candid reflection on dropping the need to fix yourself and simply let life be. You’ll hear Billy talk about stepping back from coaching, cutting his working days, and making a conscious choice to “regroup” rather than push on.

He describes the moment a mentor said, "the self doesn’t exist. You do not exist," and how that shook loose his attachment to being "Billy" with all his insecurities, ambitions and stories. Jacquie and Billy swap stories about parenting teens, exam stress, and the temptation to project old fears onto their children. They highlight how understanding that thoughts create feelings brings a “super boost of compassion” for kids, partners and, crucially, for yourself.

There’s also a lighter side: family nights watching Love Island, spontaneous late-night cinema trips, and the quiet joy of just sitting together on the sofa. This is a warm, reflective conversation for anyone who’s tired of striving, self-improvement and constant mental noise, and who wants a calmer relationship with their own mind, habits and loved ones. What if nothing about you actually needs fixing, even on the hard days?

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