Ep146 – Consistently DifferentEp146 – Consistently Different
Untoxicated Podcast
As a drinker, Matt's goal for the marriage was for Sheri to agree with him on morals, politics, religion, finances, parenting, etc. Only now in sobriety, Matt is realizing that with the exception of morals,
54:49•4 Jul 2022
Embracing Differences: Building a Strong Marriage in Sobriety
“We might be on the same team, but being on the same team doesn't mean that we're the same, and that's okay.”
Ever thought sobriety could highlight just how different you and your partner really are? In this episode of the Untoxicated Podcast, Sheri and Matt Salis dive into the surprising ways their marriage has evolved since Matt stopped drinking. During his drinking days, Matt wanted Sheri to align with his views on everything from politics to parenting. But now, they’ve realized that being different isn’t a bad thing—in fact, it’s essential for their relationship to thrive.
They talk about the importance of consistently accepting each other's differences and how falling back into old habits of criticism can be a major trigger for both of them. The episode covers everything from gender dynamics and sex drive to the emotional toll of inconsistent parenting styles. Sheri and Matt share how maturity and emotional growth in sobriety have made them more attractive to each other, emphasizing that understanding and effective communication are key.
If you’re looking for insights on how to navigate a marriage in sobriety, this episode is packed with real talk and practical advice.

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