Ep173 – Blame Won’t Fix ItEp173 – Blame Won’t Fix It
Untoxicated Podcast
Blame the alcohol, or the alcoholism, but don't blame the person. We say it all the time. But what if the blame isn't just something that occurs once the addiction is firmly in place? What if blame and criticism and attempts to change our partners is o...
57:49•9 Jan 2023
Blame Won't Heal: The Harm of Criticism in Addiction Recovery
“When we're talking about blame in relationships, I want to go beyond just hey, don't blame the alcoholic, blame the alcohol and blame the addiction, and talk about how the blame is not just happens on the back end, once the addiction is already solidified.”
Ever wondered if pointing fingers helps or hurts in a relationship dealing with addiction? In this eye-opening episode of the Untoxicated Podcast, Sheri and Matt Salis dive into the damaging effects of mutual blame and criticism. They reveal how years of trying to change each other fueled dysfunction in their marriage and contributed to the struggle with alcoholism. Instead of healing, blame only deepened their wounds.
Now, they find more joy in laughing together than in trying to fix one another. Starting with a listener's question, Sheri and Matt unpack the toxic cycle of criticism and the liberating power of acceptance. They also discuss how bibliotherapy and imagining a third person in the relationship can offer fresh perspectives. If you're navigating the rocky road of recovery, this episode provides valuable insights into fostering a supportive and understanding partnership.
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