Ep201 – Alcoholic Parenting: Teaching Dishonesty, Fear & Hatred
Ep201 – Alcoholic Parenting: Teaching Dishonesty, Fear & Hatred

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Ep200 was Cathryn's story. Sheri's and Matt's insightful and intelligent daughter shared her experiences of growing up with high-functioning alcoholism, and she revealed things on that episode that shocked Matt and confirmed Sheri's sadness.

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Untoxicated Podcast

Matt & Sheri Salis

Sheri and Matt Salis just wanted a normal life – normal marriage, normal careers, a normal house and happy kids. Instead, they lived a life of lies and terror as they struggled with Matt’s alcoholism. While their experience sounds rare, with over 15 millions problem drinkers in America, their alcoholic marriage was all too normal. Matt has been writing about their experiences in alcoholism and recovery for years. On the Untoxicated Podcast, Sheri and Matt talk about it, too. No subjects are off limits as the couple discusses the trauma of active addiction, the pain of early recovery, the destruction and rebuilding of trust, and the impact on their intimate relationship. If you love an alcoholic, the disease will terrorize your relationship. We hope you’ll listen and find healing in our shared stories. For more support from Sheri and Matt, check out their Echoes of Recovery program providing connection and healing for the loved ones of alcoholics.

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Facing the Truth: Alcoholism's Grip on Family Life

Episode Overview

Reflecting on the impact of their daughter's revelations in the previous episode
Confronting the detrimental effects of rule setting and pervasive nature of lying
Sharing profound realisations, regrets, and frustrations
Calling for a societal shift in how alcohol and parenthood are viewed
Exploring the urgency for change and the far-reaching consequences of alcoholism on family life

“Living with alcoholism is capital T trauma. This episode sheds light on the far-reaching consequences of alcoholism on family life and the urgency for change.”

Sheri and Matt Salis are back with another powerful episode of the Untoxicated Podcast, where they tackle the harsh realities of how alcoholism seeps into family life. After their daughter Cathryn's candid revelations in the previous episode, Sheri and Matt take a moment to reflect on their own roles and the damage caused by high-functioning alcoholism. This isn't about pointing fingers or making excuses; it's about coming to terms with the pain and confusion that alcohol brings into a household.

They kick off the episode by addressing a listener's question, adding a personal touch that makes you feel like part of the conversation. As they dig deeper, they discuss the unintended lessons of dishonesty, fear, and hatred that can arise in a home affected by alcoholism. The couple's raw honesty is both heartbreaking and enlightening, as they share their regrets and frustrations. They also make a compelling case for rethinking societal norms around alcohol and parenting.

If you're grappling with similar issues or just want to understand the far-reaching effects of alcoholism on family dynamics, this episode is a must-listen. Sheri and Matt's vulnerability and courage offer a beacon of hope for anyone navigating these tough waters.

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