Ep289 – Tied to No Particular Outcome with John Olander
Ep289 – Tied to No Particular Outcome with John Olander

Untoxicated Podcast

Trigger warning: Domestic violence is discussed - John Olander has a network of relationships all over Denver, and he is as tenacious as he is inspiring. But John experienced 20 dark years, crossing over the line from high-functioning alcoholism into ...

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55:59•31 Mar 2025

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Untoxicated Podcast

Matt & Sheri Salis

Sheri and Matt Salis just wanted a normal life – normal marriage, normal careers, a normal house and happy kids. Instead, they lived a life of lies and terror as they struggled with Matt’s alcoholism. While their experience sounds rare, with over 15 millions problem drinkers in America, their alcoholic marriage was all too normal. Matt has been writing about their experiences in alcoholism and recovery for years. On the Untoxicated Podcast, Sheri and Matt talk about it, too. No subjects are off limits as the couple discusses the trauma of active addiction, the pain of early recovery, the destruction and rebuilding of trust, and the impact on their intimate relationship. If you love an alcoholic, the disease will terrorize your relationship. We hope you’ll listen and find healing in our shared stories. For more support from Sheri and Matt, check out their Echoes of Recovery program providing connection and healing for the loved ones of alcoholics.

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John Olander’s Journey from Darkness to Community Support

Episode Overview

John Olander shares his journey from high-functioning alcoholism to recovery.
He emphasizes the importance of community support in overcoming addiction.
John discusses his mantra of not being attached to specific outcomes.
His story includes overcoming legal troubles and homelessness.
John's involvement in various recovery communities highlights his commitment to helping others.

“Once I did that and I surrendered and I said, okay God, it's your show. Whatever happens, it's gravy now.”

John Olander’s story is one of resilience, community, and redemption. In this episode of the Untoxicated Podcast, hosts Sheri and Matt Salis welcome John, who shares his journey from high-functioning alcoholism to recovery. John’s life was once a whirlwind of alcohol-fueled legal troubles, homelessness, and isolation. Yet, he managed to turn it around by embracing community support and letting go of specific outcomes.

John’s mantra of not being attached to any particular outcome has been pivotal in his recovery and daily life. This episode dives deep into John's experiences, including the humbling moments that led him to seek help and the supportive network he built in Denver. His involvement in real estate, writing workshops, and recovery communities highlights his dedication to giving back and helping others. John's story is a testament to the power of community and the importance of asking for help.

His journey shows that no matter how dark things get, there is always a way back. If you're looking for an inspiring tale of transformation and the impact of community support, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to hear John's candid reflections and learn how his approach to life can offer hope and guidance to anyone struggling with addiction.

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