Matt & Sheri Salis

Untoxicated Podcast

Matt & Sheri Salis

  • Ep313 – Blame Assigned or Blame Prevented

Ep313 – Blame Assigned or Blame Prevented

Monday 15th September 2025

Sheri and Matt Salis discuss blame in alcoholic relationships, exploring emotional abuse and societal norms.
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69 minutes
Inspiring
Informative
Honest
Raw
Engaging

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Matt & Sheri Salis
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Blame Game: Alcohol or Emotional Abuse?

Episode Overview

  • Consider whether blame should be assigned to alcohol or if a cultural shift is needed.
  • Emotional abuse should be recognised as unacceptable as physical abuse.
  • Demanding respect and emotional safety can prevent escalation into addiction.
  • Personal anecdotes reveal overlooked red flags in alcoholic relationships.
  • "Ask Laura" segment offers mental health insights from Laura Hammock.
"I would almost rather have you email all of our neighbours that I have a small penis than to say that our yard looks like shit."
Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey? Join Sheri and Matt Salis as they tackle the complex topic of blame in relationships impacted by addiction. In this engaging episode, they question whether blame should be assigned to the alcohol or if it's time for a cultural shift that prevents blame altogether.
Through their candid discussion, Sheri and Matt explore the idea of adding emotional abuse to the list of unacceptable behaviours, highlighting the importance of emotional safety and respect in relationships. The couple reflects on their own experiences, sharing personal anecdotes that reveal the subtle red flags often overlooked in relationships with alcoholics. They argue that demanding respect and emotional maturity from the outset could prevent the escalation into full-blown addiction, saving relationships from years of pain and resentment.
Listeners are prompted to consider the societal norms that allow emotional abuse to go unchecked, and whether it's time for a change. The episode is filled with moments of humour and raw honesty, making it a compelling listen for anyone touched by addiction. Sheri and Matt also introduce their new segment, "Ask Laura," featuring mental health professional Laura Hammock, who will offer her insights on listeners' questions.
This episode is a call to action for societal change, encouraging listeners to demand respect and emotional safety in all relationships. What can we learn from those who have battled addiction? How can we create a culture that prioritises emotional safety? Tune in to find out.
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