Michael Van Meter

Recovery Is Possible

Mike Van Meter

  • Episode 174 - The Deception of Denial

Episode 174 - The Deception of Denial

Monday 13th October 2025

Explore how denial fuels addiction and learn strategies to break through for lasting recovery.
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Unmasking Denial: The Hidden Barrier in Addiction Recovery

Episode Overview

  • Denial is a significant barrier in recognising addiction.
  • Cognitive distortions fuel denial, making it hard to accept reality.
  • Natural consequences can be pivotal in breaking through denial.
  • Family members often struggle with their own forms of denial.
  • Support systems like Al-Anon can provide valuable guidance.
"Addiction is the only disease that tells you that you don't have it."
What makes denial such a powerful force in addiction? In 'The Deception of Denial,' Mike Van Meter, a seasoned former FBI agent and recovery advocate, breaks down the intricate mental gymnastics that addiction plays on the mind. With his co-host Lily, they tackle the cognitive distortions like rationalisation and self-deception that keep people trapped in addiction. The episode isn't just about identifying these patterns; it's about offering practical strategies to break free from them.
Mike shares his personal experiences from his varied career, illustrating how denial manifests not just in individuals but also in families and communities. Lily adds depth with her insights from Al-Anon and lay counselling, highlighting how family members often get ensnared in the same web of denial. Together, they explore the frustrating yet necessary role of 'natural consequences' and how they can sometimes be the catalyst for change.
This episode offers a blend of hard truths and compassionate advice, making it a must-listen for anyone affected by addiction. Whether you're battling addiction yourself or supporting a loved one, this episode provides valuable perspectives and actionable advice. Are you ready to confront the deceptions of denial head-on?
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