Allison K. Dagney
Allison K. Dagney
Episode 181: Mini Series 3: Why You Shouldn't Have Left Sooner
Episode 181: Mini Series 3: Why You Shouldn't Have Left Sooner
Episode 181: Mini Series 3: Why You Shouldn't Have Left Sooner
Tuesday 23rd September 2025
Explore why staying longer in an abusive relationship isn't failure but survival. Find peace with insights from Allison K. Dagney.
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Allison K. Dagney
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Recovery from Trauma
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Healing Relationships
Mindful Recovery
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Episode Overview
- Staying longer in an abusive relationship is often a survival mechanism.
- Reframe beliefs to move past guilt and regret.
- Understand the role of the nervous system in survival mode.
- Self-compassion is key to healing from past decisions.
- Survivors left when they had the capacity to do so.
"When your reality disagrees with your beliefs, you suffer."
Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey? In this episode of The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast, Allison K. Dagney tackles the complex emotions tied to leaving an abusive relationship. Have you ever found yourself thinking, 'I should've left sooner'? You're not alone. Many survivors carry this burden of self-blame and regret, but Allison is here to offer a fresh perspective.
With over 20 years of personal experience and expertise in subconscious reprogramming, she shares why staying longer wasn't a failure, but a necessary part of survival. She explains how your brain and nervous system were doing their best to keep you safe, even when it felt like you were stuck. Allison's candid storytelling and scientific insights make this episode a must-listen for anyone struggling with guilt over past decisions.
She encourages listeners to reframe their beliefs and find peace in knowing they left when they were ready. Through relatable anecdotes and practical advice, she sheds light on the importance of self-compassion and understanding the science behind survival instincts. Whether you're still in a challenging relationship or have moved on, this episode offers validation and hope. So, are you ready to let go of regret and embrace your journey?
Tune in for an empowering conversation that might just change how you view your past decisions.