Duane Osterlind, LMFT
Duane Osterlind, LMFT
Episode 373: Grieving the "Lover": Navigating Chaos with the Satir Model of Change with Steve Buckby
Episode 373: Grieving the "Lover": Navigating Chaos with the Satir Model of Change with Steve Buckby
Episode 373: Grieving the "Lover": Navigating Chaos with the Satir Model of Change with Steve Buckby
Monday 23rd February 2026
Explore the journey of addiction recovery with Steve Buckby using the Virginia Satir Model of Change. A must-listen for those seeking sobriety.
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Duane Osterlind, LMFT
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Episode Overview
- Addiction can be seen as a 'lover' that must be grieved.
- The Satir Model provides tools like the Mandala and Iceberg for change.
- Therapy is a collaborative journey between therapist and client.
- Support systems are crucial in managing addiction triggers.
- Understanding personal triggers is key to preventing relapse.
"Therapy isn't something you do to somebody; it's something you do with them."
What drives someone to seek a life without alcohol? In this episode of The Addicted Mind Podcast, Steve Buckby shares his decades of experience with the Virginia Satir Model of Change. This isn't your typical therapy session; it's an exploration of addiction as a 'lover' that must be grieved, a journey through chaos towards a new normal. Steve introduces us to concepts like the 'Mandala' and the 'Iceberg', illustrating how they can guide those battling addiction.
You'll hear how the relationship between therapist and client is more of a partnership, where both navigate the chaos together. Steve's insights on using experiential therapy offer a fresh perspective on the process of change, emphasising that therapy is something done with someone, not to them. Steve also touches on the importance of understanding addiction triggers and the role of support systems in recovery.
He believes that while chaos is inevitable in the recovery process, it’s essential to guide clients through it with compassion and patience. The episode is peppered with anecdotes that reflect Steve’s deep empathy and understanding, making it not just informative but also deeply moving. So, if you're curious about how people find strength in their journey to sobriety, this episode offers a wealth of wisdom. How can we redefine our relationships with our 'addictions' and move towards healing?
Tune in to find out.