Unmasking the Perils of 13th Stepping: A Deep Dive with Erin Moore
It's so important that- and this is why we recommend the tandem sponsoring- it's like you bringing a friend who's looking out for you, right, just like when girls would go out and they always bring a friend, they would never hit, or shouldn't hit, the bar alone.
Imagine entering a support group for recovery and finding that the very people meant to help you might exploit your vulnerability. In this eye-opening episode of 'Recovery in the Middle Ages', hosts Mike and Nat, along with guest Erin Moore, tackle the unsettling issue of '13th Stepping' in Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and Narcotics Anonymous (NA). This term refers to situations where experienced members pursue romantic or exploitative relationships with newcomers, potentially derailing their recovery journey and posing significant risks.
Erin Moore, a certified peer recovery specialist, joins the conversation to shed light on how these power imbalances can manifest and the real dangers they present. The trio discusses personal experiences and broader implications, offering a candid look at why choosing the right sponsor is crucial. They delve into tandem sponsoring, a method where two friends support each other, as a safer alternative. The episode doesn't stop there.
Mike, Nat, and Erin also explore alternative recovery methods like Smart Recovery and discuss the legal complexities surrounding court-mandated AA attendance for non-alcohol related offenses. These insights offer listeners a well-rounded view of the challenges within traditional recovery models and the importance of diverse support systems. If you've ever questioned the safety of your recovery environment or wondered about different ways to find support, this episode is a must-listen.
It provides practical advice on navigating sponsor relationships and highlights the critical role of peer recovery specialists. Tune in for an engaging and informative discussion that aims to make recovery safer for everyone involved.