Grief and guilt: losing a loved one to suicide

Grief and guilt: losing a loved one to suicide

All In The Mind

When Blake's dad died by suicide, it came as a complete shock. Overwhelming grief, combined with confusion and guilt — it uprooted his life. The loss made him rethink his own mental health, and eventually, channel that into the community — fundraising and taking on three world records. Today, we're talking about suicide bereavement; how it can affect family and friends, its long lasting impacts on mental health, and how to support someone going through the experience. It can be really tricky to talk about suicide, so how do you tackle talking to kids about this kind of loss? Also, why are rates of suicide not going down, despite millions spent on prevention? And why do some people experience something called post-traumatic growth while others don't? This episode discusses suicide, grief and mental illness in depth. Please take care while listening. Guests: Blake Johnston Former pro surfer Surf Coach Mental Health advocate Author, Swellbeing Associate Professor Karl Andriessen Principal Research Fellow, Centre for Mental Health and Community Wellbeing Melbourne School of Population and Global Health University of Melbourne Tanja Hirvonen Clinical psychologist Chief Executive Officer, Thirrili Board Director, Australian Indigenous Psychologists Association Board Director, Black Dog Institute Credits: Presenter/producer: Sana Qadar Producer: Rose Kerr Senior producer: James Bullen Sound engineer: Harvey O'Sullivan Thanks to freesound.org users tim.kahn and juskiddink Support and resources: Lifeline 13 11 14 Thirrili 1800 805 801 13 YARN 13 92 76 Beyond Blue  1300 22 4636 More information: Coping With A Parent's Suicide Alarming rise in Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander suicide rates A better way: suicide prevention in First Nations communities You can catch up on more episodes of the All in the Mind podcast with journalist and presenter Sana Qadar, exploring the psychology of topics like stress, memory, communication and relationships on ABC Listen or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Blake Johnston's Journey: From Grief to World Records

Episode Overview

  • Suicide bereavement can lead to complicated grief and guilt.
  • Open conversations about loss are crucial, especially with children.
  • Community support plays a vital role in healing.
  • Post-traumatic growth is possible through action and purpose.
  • Indigenous communities face unique challenges in suicide prevention.
"I didn't want to be another statistic. I wanted to be someone that made the world a better place."

Experience the emotional journey of Blake Johnston as he shares the heart-wrenching story of losing his father to suicide. This episode of 'All In The Mind' offers a candid look into the complexities of grief and guilt that follow such a profound loss. Blake's story is not just about personal sorrow but also about transformation and resilience. After his father's passing, Blake channelled his grief into action, setting world records and raising significant funds for mental health charities.

The episode delves into the challenges of suicide bereavement, its impact on mental health, and the importance of open conversations, especially with children. You'll hear from experts like Carl Andreessen, who highlights the need for support systems for those left behind. Tanya Hervenon discusses the unique challenges faced by Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander communities in dealing with suicide. Through Blake's narrative, listeners are reminded of the power of community, action, and finding purpose after tragedy.

How do we support those grieving such a loss? Tune in to explore these themes and more.

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