Growing Up With Addiction, Growing Into Recovery

Growing Up With Addiction, Growing Into Recovery

RAW Recovery Podcast

A family talks candidly about growing up with addiction, the damage it caused, and how they are rebuilding trust and connection through recovery. Their conversation highlights forgiveness, boundaries, and the difference between unconditional love and enabling.

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56:376 Jun 2026

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Growing Up With Addiction and Learning to Love Again as a Family

Episode Overview

  • Recognising alcoholism as an illness, not a simple choice, can shift anger into empathy and open the door to forgiveness.
  • Unconditional love does not mean accepting abuse; it can mean loving someone from a distance while holding firm boundaries.
  • Al‑Anon and Alateen offer families education, support, and practical tools for saying "no" without losing compassion.
  • Trust is rebuilt over time through consistent, changed behaviour rather than promises or emotional pleas.
  • Children in alcoholic homes benefit when adults prioritise their safety and stability, even if that means temporary separation or tough decisions.
The only true apology is change behavior.

What can we learn from those who have battled addiction? This raw family conversation drops you right into a living room where recovery is a very real, very messy, and very funny work in progress. The episode centres on Dion, his wife Shannon, and their daughter Kira as they talk openly about growing up with addiction, the chaos it brought into their home, and what it looks like to rebuild something healthier together. Nothing is sugar-coated.

You’ll hear jokes about brown paper bags, AA stereotypes and Al‑Anon punchlines, but also some hard truths about liver failure, alcohol dementia and kids quietly taking over adult roles long before they’re ready. Shannon shares how a lifetime around Alcoholics taught her a "backwards" version of unconditional love, and how Al‑Anon and education helped her see alcoholism as an illness rather than a moral failure.

Kira gives the child’s-eye view: being angry, dragged to Alateen, and later falling into her own alcoholism before finding recovery and reconnecting with her parents. She sums up her approach with a line many people in recovery will recognise: "The only true apology is change behavior." Trust is a huge thread here. Dion talks about making amends, hugging an estranged father figure after a ninth step, and accepting that family healing takes as long as it takes.

Shannon and Kira are honest that forgiveness doesn’t always mean reconciliation: "Unconditional love doesn’t mean I let you keep hurting me. I can still love you from afar." If you’re part of a family touched by addiction—whether you drink or not—you’ll hear practical talk about boundaries, Al‑Anon and Alateen, spiritual growth, and the slow, awkward business of learning to live together sober. It’s messy, funny, and hopeful.

Maybe it’s time to ask what unconditional love and forgiveness mean in your own family?

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