Making Peace with Enemies: Joe McDonald on Amends and Recovery
It's harder to go to an enemy than to a friend, but we find it much more beneficial to us.
Ever thought about how facing those you dislike could be a game-changer in your recovery journey? In this episode of 'Position of Neutrality', Joe McDonald dives into the tricky yet transformative process of making amends with those who have hurt us. Drawing from the wisdom of Alcoholics Anonymous, Joe unpacks why it’s often tougher to approach an enemy than a friend, but also why it’s incredibly rewarding.
He shares how the founders of AA emphasize the importance of this step, not just for personal growth, but for long-term sobriety. Through prayer and meditation, Joe explains how we can prepare ourselves mentally and emotionally to face these challenging encounters. He encourages listeners to consider how they would like to be approached if the roles were reversed, fostering a spirit of empathy and understanding.
Joe stresses that holding onto grudges can block us from spiritual growth and potentially lead us back to harmful habits. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their recovery practice and find peace with their past. Tune in to learn how embracing the Position of Neutrality can pave the way for forgiveness and lasting sobriety.