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Tim Westbrook and Wesley Kress talk about healing on physical, emotional, and spiritual levels through trauma work, acupuncture, Neufit, and meditation. The conversation focuses on treating the body as accurate, embracing courageous conversations, and using self-love as a key driver of recovery and long-term wellbeing.
1:49:47•29 Sept 2025
Healing at Every Level: Trauma, Neufit, and the Truth of an Accurate Body
Episode Overview
- Start by asking “Where do I suffer?” to identify areas that need healing rather than just focusing on symptoms.
- View the body as accurate and adaptive, allowing symptoms to guide you toward underlying trauma and imbalance.
- Use body-based approaches such as acupuncture, somatic work, and Neufit to regulate the nervous system and process emotions.
- Prioritise meditation and courageous, emotionally honest conversations as central tools for integrating past trauma.
- Shift from coping strategies to genuine transformation by practising self-love, compassion, and grace toward your conditioned patterns.
“Where do I suffer? Do I suffer in my romantic relationships, in my career? Sometimes this is all of it, right?”
Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey? This conversation between host Tim Westbrook and practitioner Wesley Kress zooms in on healing that goes far beyond symptom-chasing or quick fixes. You’ll hear Tim share how he’s often arrived at Wes’s clinic in tears, and how acupuncture, somatic bodywork, and the Neufit system helped him reset his nervous system instead of just grinding harder in the gym. Wes challenges the common idea that the body is “broken”.
For him, every symptom is accurate feedback from an intelligent system adapting to past trauma, stress, and conditioning. He explains how unresolved trauma impacts chronic illness, addiction, mood, and even performance, arguing that many medical models miss the bigger web of influences. As he puts it, “Where do I suffer?” is the most important starting question.
You’ll get a grounded explanation of why crying helps regulate the nervous system, how acupuncture can shift someone from fight-or-flight into a state of safety, and why exercise can either be deeply healing or just another socially rewarded form of avoidance. Tim’s own experience of using Neufit sessions as both a workout and emotional processing time shows how physical and emotional healing can happen together. Meditation and courageous conversations come up as core practices.
Wes talks about moving from coping to genuine transformation, facing difficult conversations with family and abusers, and using models like the Four Agreements and internal family systems to understand the “conditioned self”. Self‑love, he says, isn’t fluffy language; it’s the gritty, everyday work of meeting your pain with compassion rather than shame. If you’re sober or sober‑curious and wondering how to heal at emotional, physical, and spiritual levels, this episode offers a practical, body‑based way of thinking about progress.
What would change for you if you treated your body as accurate instead of broken?

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