Zoe Asher
Zoe Asher
How To Reconnect With An Old Friend Without Making It Weird
How To Reconnect With An Old Friend Without Making It Weird
How To Reconnect With An Old Friend Without Making It Weird
Thursday 3rd July 2025
Learn how to reconnect with old friends sincerely and avoid awkwardness with tips from Zoe Asher on Accidentally Intentional.
13 minutes
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Episode Overview
- Initiate contact with sincerity and a specific reason.
- Include a timeframe to show commitment to reconnecting.
- Ask meaningful questions to deepen conversations.
- Avoid expecting instant rekindling; trust takes time.
- Seek advice to create mutual emotional investment.
"Painful clarity is so much better than no clarity at all."
Ever wondered how to reach out to an old friend without the awkwardness? This episode of Accidentally Intentional has got you covered. Zoe Asher dives into the art of reconnecting with those from your past, breaking it down into simple steps that make the process less daunting. We all have those moments when we think of someone who was once a big part of our lives, but fear stops us from making the first move.
Zoe offers practical advice on how to take that leap, starting with going first and making contact in a genuine way. She suggests ditching the usual 'hope you're well' line and instead, sharing a meaningful memory or reason for reaching out. Adding a timeframe to your message shows you're serious about reconnecting, and it helps avoid those vague promises of catching up "sometime". The episode also emphasises the importance of asking deeper questions to reignite the friendship's spark.
Rather than sticking to small talk, Zoe encourages asking what has been life-giving for them recently or what they've been pondering. These questions can open doors to richer conversations and reveal whether you’re still on the same wavelength. She cautions against expecting instant rekindling of the friendship—building trust takes time, and it’s okay if things aren’t exactly as they were before.
In addition, Zoe shares insights from studies showing that quality relationships are key to happiness and longevity, making the effort to reconnect worthwhile. Whether it's seeking advice or just being present, these steps can help bridge any gaps that time may have created. So, if you're pondering over reaching out to an old friend, this episode provides the roadmap to do it with sincerity and purpose.