Tanner Keegan Read
Tanner Keegan Read
How To Heal Your Marriage Using Your Chaos Kid with Larry Bilotta
How To Heal Your Marriage Using Your Chaos Kid with Larry Bilotta
How To Heal Your Marriage Using Your Chaos Kid with Larry Bilotta
Thursday 23rd October 2025
Explore how emotional health and childhood experiences impact marriage with Larry Bilotta's 'energy train' concept in this engaging podcast episode.
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57 minutes
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Author:
Tanner Keegan Read
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Recovery Reimagined
Family Recovery from Addiction
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Episode Overview
- Transform your marriage by learning to love yourself first.
- Understand how childhood experiences shape adult relationships.
- Identify and change fear-based emotions with the 'energy train'.
- Create a 'fear list' and a 'love list' to guide your emotional journey.
- Shift your mindset from fear to love for a healthier relationship.
Every marriage I've ever heard of has been killed by fear.
Ever wondered what it takes to heal a marriage that feels like it's been lost to chaos? In this engaging episode of 'Retrieving Sanity', host Keegan Read sits down with marriage expert Larry Bilotta, who shares his personal journey of overcoming a tumultuous marriage. Larry introduces listeners to the concept of the 'energy train', which explains how emotions are unconsciously transmitted between partners, often leading to conflict if driven by fear rather than love.
Larry candidly discusses his own experiences in a 27-year challenging marriage and how he learned to transform his relationship by first learning to love himself. He reveals the phenomenon of the 'chaos kid', where childhood experiences shape adult relationships, often leading to fear-based interactions. The conversation delves into the necessity of shifting from a mindset of fear to one of love and intimacy. With light-hearted moments and deep reflections, Larry's insights offer a refreshing perspective on relationships.
He challenges listeners to explore their own beliefs and emotions, encouraging them to question what they truly believe about marriage and why. His practical advice on creating a 'fear list' and a 'love list' provides a tangible way to start making positive changes in one's life. Whether you're facing your own relationship challenges or simply interested in the dynamics of marriage, this episode offers valuable lessons on finding clarity amidst chaos.
Are you ready to start your own journey towards love and away from fear?