Laurel S — Alcoholism Ended her Marriage — 383Laurel S — Alcoholism Ended her Marriage — 383
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Laurel's story begins: My wife was 6 years sober when we met – but not in program. “AA doesn’t work for me”. She remained sober another 6 years. After our first baby and a big move for my career (that put her closer to her family) she decided she “want...
1:27:36•24 Jun 2022
Laurel's Journey: Finding Hope After Alcoholism Shattered Her Marriage
“I didn't have any idea until I came into Al-Anon in Seven Years Later, how typical financial and sexual problems are in marriages affected by alcoholism.”
What happens when the person you love decides to take a dangerous path? Laurel S found herself grappling with this very question. In episode 383 of The Recovery Show, she opens up about how her marriage unraveled due to her wife's alcoholism. When they first met, Laurel's wife had been sober for six years but wasn't involved in any recovery program. Things took a turn after their first baby and a significant career move for Laurel.
Her wife decided to start drinking again, promising it wouldn't become a problem. But as many in Al-Anon can relate, it did become a problem—a big one. Laurel shares the emotional turmoil she faced as her wife's drinking led to financial and sexual issues in their marriage. She didn't realize the full extent of these common problems until she joined Al-Anon. One of her key takeaways was the power of changed attitudes.
Laurel discovered that while she couldn't control her wife's actions, she could control her own responses and attitudes. Walking into Al-Anon was a turning point for Laurel. She learned that it wasn't her job to keep her family intact by herself. By separating their finances and recognizing her own limits, she found a peace she hadn't known before.
A significant revelation for her was understanding the importance of being ready to let go of character defects and accepting what is, rather than trying to change someone else. Laurel's story is one of finding hope and healing by focusing on her own recovery. She learned that by taking care of herself, she could be a better support for her family. If you're struggling with similar issues, Laurel's experience offers a beacon of hope.
Tune in to hear her candid account and discover the support and encouragement that Al-Anon can provide.
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