Living with Lies – Episode 132Living with Lies – Episode 132
The Recovery Show » Finding serenity through 12 step recovery in Al-Anon – a podcast
Do you obsess over the thought that your loved one might be lying? Do you have to prove the lies? How do you find the ability to trust in recovery?
1:05:23•8 Dec 2015
Trust Issues in Recovery: Julia and Spencer on Living with Lies
“The key tool for me there was detachment to understand...we never know what the truth looks like to another person. In other words, she might believe that her perceptions of the event occurred that way and my diminishing the event is just part of my skewed view of the world.”
Ever found yourself questioning the truthfulness of a loved one battling addiction? In this episode of 'The Recovery Show', Julia and Spencer tackle the thorny issue of living with lies in the context of Al-Anon's 12-step recovery. They share candid stories about their struggles with trust, detachment, and the complex emotions that come with loving someone who might not always be honest.
Julia opens up about her own experiences with deceit and how it impacted her relationships, while Spencer sheds light on the protective lies addicts often tell. The duo discusses how they've navigated these challenges using the principles of Al-Anon, emphasizing the importance of honesty with oneself and others. They also explore how denial can be a barrier to recovery and offer practical advice on fostering self-awareness and acceptance.
This episode is a heartfelt conversation filled with personal reflections and actionable insights, perfect for anyone grappling with trust issues in their recovery journey.

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