Narcissists And Feigning Ignorance

Narcissists And Feigning Ignorance

Imagine dealing with someone who always seems to 'forget' or 'not know' when their actions hurt you. In this episode, Cynthia Bailey-Rug unpacks the sneaky tactic of feigning ignorance used by covert narcissists to manipulate and control their victims. These narcissists pretend to be clueless to dodge responsibility and avoid confrontation. They might say things like 'I didn't know that would upset you' or 'I was just trying to help', leaving you doubting your own feelings and reality.

Cynthia explains how this tactic is especially damaging in relationships where one partner is a covert narcissist and the other is overtly abusive. The covert narcissist often stands by, doing nothing, and later claims ignorance about the abuse. This leaves the victim feeling unsupported and confused. By understanding these manipulation tactics, you can better protect yourself and start to heal from narcissistic abuse.

Cynthia's insights offer a lifeline for anyone caught in the web of narcissistic manipulation, providing clarity and practical advice for reclaiming your sense of self.