The Ascanio Siblings: Navigating Grief After Losing a Brother to Fentanyl
The Ascanio story is one of a family who continues to fight for each other even when it feels like there isn't anything else that can be done. But there is also hope that Nicole and Joe are spreading Anthony's story so that we might save other lives from this same fate.
Imagine the heartbreak of losing a sibling to a drug overdose. That's the reality Nicole and Joseph Ascanio faced when their brother Anthony died in August 2021 after unknowingly taking fentanyl-laced Percocet. In this episode of 'The Courage to Change: A Recovery Podcast', they open up about the complex grief and emotional turmoil that followed his death.
From facing the 'firsts' without him – the first week, first Christmas, first anniversary – to questioning every interaction they had with him, Nicole and Joe's journey is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. The Ascanios grew up in a close-knit Italian family, moving frequently and leaning on each other for support. Their bond only deepened as they ventured into the culinary world, gaining recognition for their skills.
However, the pressures and underlying anxiety led them down a dark path of opiate addiction. Anthony's struggle with cross addiction, battling both drugs and food, ultimately led to his tragic end. Nicole and Joe's story isn't just about loss; it's about resilience and the power of family. They continue to fight for each other, even when it feels like there's nothing left to do.
They're using their experience to raise awareness about the dangers of fentanyl and the importance of seeking help for addiction and mental health issues. Their message is clear: complicated grief doesn't have to be faced alone, and there is hope in sharing your story. Through their candid conversation, you'll hear how they've coped with their grief and found ways to move forward. They emphasize the importance of compassion, vulnerability, and asking for help when needed.
If you or someone you know is struggling with addiction, this episode offers a beacon of hope and a reminder that recovery is possible.