Position of Neutrality: The Power of Humility in Making Amends in Step 8 & 9 AAPosition of Neutrality: The Power of Humility in Making Amends in Step 8 & 9 AA
Position of Neutrality
Joe McDonald discusses the power of humility in making amends through Steps 8 and 9 of AA, focusing on healing relationships and personal growth.
0:48•28 Sept 2024
The Power of Humility in Making Amends: Steps 8 & 9 AA
Episode Overview
- Making amends is about healing relationships, not just saying 'sorry'.
- Subordinating your ego is crucial for sincere amends.
- Encounters can be unpredictable but are essential for growth.
- Even if things don't go as planned, doing your part is what matters.
- Former enemies can sometimes become allies.
“How many of you have gone to make an approach for an amends, and by the time you started talking about it, neither one of you could really remember what you were so doggone mad about?”
Have you ever wondered about the true power of humility? In this episode of Position of Neutrality, Joe McDonald dives into the delicate and transformative process of making amends as outlined in Steps 8 and 9 of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe brings his own experiences to the table, sharing how these steps are not just about saying 'sorry' but about genuinely healing relationships and setting things right.
He talks about the unpredictable nature of these encounters and stresses the importance of subordinating one's ego to make sincere amends. Imagine going to make amends and realising that neither you nor the other person can remember what initially caused the rift. Joe explains that this is more common than you might think and highlights how former enemies can sometimes become allies, offering praise and even assistance.
But, even if things don't go as planned and you're thrown out of an office, what's important is that you've done your part. Joe’s reflections are filled with relatable anecdotes and practical advice, making this episode a must-listen for anyone on a journey of recovery or looking to mend broken relationships. Tune in to understand why making amends is less about the outcome and more about the process of humbling oneself and taking responsibility.
Ready to take that first step towards healing? Don't miss out on Joe's invaluable insights.

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