Powerlessness & SurrenderPowerlessness & Surrender
My Child & ADDICTION
During this hour-long Parent Support Group meeting, the topic is “Powerlessness & Surrender,” and applying it to parenting children with substance use disorder. The group includes mothers and fathers, some in recovery, married...
57:36•20 May 2019
Finding Strength in Surrender: Parents Open Up About Substance Use Disorder
“Powerlessness means that I can't control, and we make attempts to control people in the best of ways. And if I can accept reality and work towards that every day, then I can focus on all the things we're talking about, keep my side of the street clean and not go crazy.”
Ever felt like you're losing control when it comes to your child's substance use? In this heartfelt episode of 'My Child & Addiction', parents gather to share their raw and honest experiences about the tough concepts of powerlessness and surrender. The group, which includes both mothers and fathers with teenage to adult children, is joined by Sharon Matthew, a seasoned clinician from Caron Treatment Centers.
Together, they dive into what it means to accept the reality of their children's struggles without losing hope. The discussion is a candid mix of personal stories and practical advice. One parent recounts the long journey it took for their son to acknowledge his addiction, while another shares how their daughter proactively sought therapy. These stories underline a crucial point: while parents can't force their children to stop using, they can set boundaries and focus on their own well-being.
A key theme in the conversation is the difference between control and care. The parents talk about the importance of self-care and seeking help, whether through therapy or support groups. They emphasize that surrendering isn't about giving up; it's about recognizing what you can and can't control and making peace with it. If you're navigating the choppy waters of parenting a child with substance use disorder, this episode offers a beacon of support and understanding.
Tune in to hear real parents discuss real challenges and find out how they manage to keep their heads above water.

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