RR 214: Grab Life Big with Rock Thomas

RR 214: Grab Life Big with Rock Thomas

The SHAIR Recovery Podcast

Omar Pinto talks with Rock Thomas about how identity, language and mentoring can support recovery and whole-life success. Their conversation blends personal stories, practical routines and mindset tools aimed at people seeking a stronger, more intentional sober life.

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1:22:4119 Mar 2019

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Changing Your "I Am": Rock Thomas on Identity, Recovery and Grabbing Life Big

Episode Overview

  • Changing the statements that follow "I am" can shift identity and support long-term recovery.
  • Mentors who see potential in you can provide belief you don’t yet have in yourself.
  • Simple, consistent morning routines and weekly reviews help you live each day with intention.
  • Information alone changes nothing; applying it repeatedly is what creates transformation.
  • Your peer group and environment can either lift you toward your goals or pull you back into old patterns.
"The words that follow 'I am' follow you."

How do people find strength in their journey to sobriety? This conversation between host Omar Pinto and entrepreneur-coach Rock Thomas leans hard into that question, blending recovery, mindset work and a good dose of humour. Aimed at people in recovery who feel stuck or "not enough", the episode centres on how identity and language shape behaviour.

Rock shares raw stories from his life: caring for his dying father, being beaten down by a harsh upbringing, losing all his hair to alopecia, and feeling like a "loser" new real estate agent kicking a photocopier. One sentence from a top colleague flipped everything: she told him he’d one day be the best agent in the office – and he eventually owned the largest Remax franchise in Quebec.

You’ll hear Rock and Omar swap experiences from addiction and early recovery to personal development seminars, NLP coaching and Tony Robbins events.

They break down why saying things like "I am not enough" or "I am an alcoholic" can lock in limiting identities, and why Rock insists, "The words that follow ‘I am’ follow you." Omar connects this directly with recovery language, talking about shifting to "a person in long-term recovery" and how that small tweak changes how you feel about yourself.

Rock lays out simple, practical routines: a no-fuss morning ritual with push-ups, hydration and a five-minute "I am" audio; a Sunday review system to celebrate wins and honestly assess where he slipped; and using the brain at night by asking the unconscious to work on problems while he sleeps. Both men keep coming back to one theme: transformation only happens when you apply what you learn, day after day.

If you’ve ever wondered whether changing your words and your peer group could change your sobriety, this chat might be the nudge you’ve been waiting for.

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