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TD shares a raw ACA story of severe childhood abuse, later addictions to work and exercise, and how service and community have supported 32 years of recovery. The episode centres on isolation, spiritual experiences, inner child work and service as tools for ongoing healing.
16:07•1 Jun 2026
Service, Safety and Healing: TD’s 32-Year ACA Journey
Episode Overview
- Service is described as a crucial anchor that keeps TD connected, showing up, and feeling a sense of belonging in ACA.
- Isolation is identified as a major risk, with TD stressing that healing happens in community, even when contact with others feels irritating.
- Achievement, work and exercise became addictions that masked trauma and a deep longing to belong, rather than true fulfilment.
- Spiritual experiences and specific prayers for safety played a key role in TD finding secure housing and eventually an ACA meeting.
- Inner child work, body awareness and imaginative "family meetings" inside are used to uncover and soothe younger parts that still hold pain.
“"Healing only happens outside of isolation. Healing happens in community."”
Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey alongside deep childhood trauma? This ACA Tuesday Zoombox share from TD traces more than three decades of recovery from growing up in a violently abusive, alcoholic and deeply neglectful home. TD talks frankly about early physical and sexual abuse, being blamed for her brother’s serious head injuries, and carrying lifelong guilt that was never hers to hold.
As she explains her later addictions to exercise and work, you’ll hear how achievement became a substitute for love and belonging: if she could be perfect, maybe she’d finally earn a place in the family. The turning point comes with a terrifying home invasion and a series of gang-related incidents that leave her desperate for safety.
A vivid spiritual experience, an unlikely answered prayer for a guest house, and a chance meeting on a modelling job gradually lead her into ACA. From there, service becomes her lifeline: "Service became such a foundation, such an anchor in my life still to this day. I cannot recommend it strong enough." This share will especially resonate with adult children of alcoholics and dysfunctional families who struggle with isolation.
TD describes the ongoing tension between needing solitude as an artist and slipping into lonely withdrawal, and she puts it bluntly: "healing only happens outside of isolation. Healing happens in community." You’ll also hear how she works with her inner children through vivid imagery, body awareness and gentle self-enquiry, using irritation and physical symptoms as cues that something younger inside needs care.
For anyone wondering whether long-term ACA service and community actually make a difference, TD’s 32 years in the programme, and her belief she wouldn’t be alive without it, offer a raw and honest perspective. What might change for you if service became your anchor too?
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