Steps 8 and 9Steps 8 and 9
Recovery Radio Network
speaking in 2015
1:01:45•7 Jun 2016
Steps 8 and 9: Mike's Journey of Making Amends
Episode Overview
- Steps 8 and 9 focus on making amends and ego deflation.
- Genuine remorse is crucial for effective amends.
- Writing out amends lists can help organise thoughts.
- Facing fears is part of the transformative process.
- The twelve-step programme can lead to profound personal change.
“What the amends process is all about is not wanting to be that kind of man anymore.”
In this episode of Recovery Radio Network, Mike dives into Steps 8 and 9 of the twelve-step programme. Sharing his journey with raw honesty, Mike recounts how these steps transformed his life and helped him find a deeper connection with his higher power. He opens up about his initial scepticism towards the concept of God and how he gradually saw divine intervention in his recovery journey.
Mike's candid storytelling provides a vivid picture of the challenges and triumphs faced during the amends process, highlighting the importance of ego deflation and sincere apologies. Mike also reflects on the practical aspects of making amends, from writing out amends lists to approaching difficult situations with humility. He shares anecdotes about making amends to his ex-wife, his daughter, and even individuals involved in his past criminal activities.
Each story underscores the emotional weight and the profound impact of these steps on his path to sobriety. The episode is not just about Mike's experiences but also offers valuable insights for anyone on a similar journey. He discusses the significance of genuine remorse and the difference between a heartfelt apology and a superficial one. Mike's narrative is filled with moments of fear, relief, and eventual peace, making it relatable and inspiring for those in recovery.
Whether you're in recovery yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode offers a wealth of wisdom and practical advice. It’s a testament to the power of the twelve-step programme and the transformative potential of making amends. Tune in to hear Mike's compelling story and gain a deeper understanding of Steps 8 and 9.

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