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Emotional Sobriety: The Next Step in Recovery
Thom and Allen discuss pursuing emotional sobriety once we become aware of our “unconscious incompetence.” In practicing anything until it becomes innate and automatic, the path begins (as so much of what we do), in acceptance. We return to the serenity prayer. Patrick’s “Outside Issues” podcast, about the intersection of recovery and social justice: https://www.youtube.com/@outsideissuespodcast https://pod.link/1826305552 Learn more about Joe C., Secular AA and Rebellion Dogs here: https://rebelliondogspublishing.com Follow us on social media. Podcast Twitter: @EmSobrietyPod Instagram: thomrutledge2 Joe C. Twitter: @Rebellion_Dogs Friendly Circle Berlin Workshop Group meets every Monday @ 7:30pm (Berlin), 6:30pm (Ireland & UK), 1:30pm EST, 10:30am PST Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/5505019905 Allen’s book, 12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety: https://www.amazon.com/12-Essential-Insights-Emotional-Sobriety/dp/1955415129/ Join Allen & Thom at our Thursday night, 7pm PST Zoom meeting on Emotional Sobriety and the Steps (login information below): https://zoom.us/j/330149513 Password: 375986 For our ongoing workshop video series on Emotional Sobriety and the 12 Steps, visit our YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHEM2-kqLkfp3I4c0jy-X-g Also, please join our “Emotional Sobriety and Recovery” FB Group at the following link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/120450976662519 We’d love to stay in touch in between meetings. We appreciate feedback! Contact Patrick, our producer, at pndirective4@gmail.com for any questions or comments.
32:16•15 Aug 2025
Streamline Your Thinking: Mastering Emotional Sobriety
Episode Overview
- Acceptance is key to emotional growth.
- Practise leads to automatic responses.
- Recognise and let go of unhealthy obsessions.
- Addiction affects the entire brain, not just pleasure centres.
- Streamline thoughts by focusing on what you can control.
“Acceptance is the first step to change always.”
In 'Streamline Your Thinking!', Thom Rutledge and Dr. Allen Berger dive into the concept of emotional sobriety, a term coined by Bill Wilson, co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous. This episode explores how accepting what we cannot change is crucial to emotional growth. The hosts share personal stories and insights, reflecting on how practising acceptance can lead to more effective self-management and improved mental health. The serenity prayer is revisited as a tool for finding peace and clarity in daily life.
Thom and Allen discuss the transition from unconscious incompetence to mastery, drawing parallels with learning new skills like karate or playing musical instruments. They highlight how repeated practice leads to automatic responses, which can be applied to emotional sobriety. The conversation touches on the importance of recognising unhealthy obsessions and letting go of things we can't control, likening this process to clearing mental cobwebs.
They also explore how addiction can hijack the brain, emphasising the need for conscious awareness and the decision-making process that leads to healthier choices. With anecdotes about horses and personal writing struggles, the hosts illustrate how emotional sobriety can be integrated into everyday life. This episode offers practical advice on streamlining thoughts and encourages listeners to identify and surrender unrealistic demands for a more balanced life.
If you're curious about how emotional sobriety can transform your thinking, this episode is worth a listen.
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