The Big EventThe Big Event
Sober Awkward
<p>Does the thought of a sober Near Year’s Eve fill you with dread? Can you imagine attending a festival with nothing to lean on except a can of fizzy water? And how on earth do sober people survive Mardi Gras without downing a few shots of Tequila before heading to the club?</p><p>Going to big events ‘totally-tea-total’ can certainly change the vibe. It’s overwhelming watching everyone around you get wide-eyed and wasted while you tap your foot and plaster a fake sober smile across your face. If you are newly sober those first shindigs can be anxiety inducing and overwhelming…. But the good news is, the longer you are sober and the more you go, the easier big events will become.</p><p>So, before you go weak at the knees and find yourself queued up at the bar with the rest of the shitfaced revellers, listen as Vic and Hamish attempt to stop you in your tracks, get you prepped and make sure if you do go out you do it in style, with a positive attitude, and a belt full of sober tools to get you past that grumpy bouncer.</p><p>Show Notes</p><p>Thanks to The Tap House and The Sunshine Coast Night Quarter for supplying us with the lovely Mocktail evening. <a href="https://nightquarter.com.au">https://nightquarter.com.au</a></p><p>Sober Awkward is a NOVA Entertainment Podcast.</p><p>Resources</p><p><a href="http://www.cuppa.community/">www.cuppa.community</a> – The Free Social Network for the Sober and Sober Curious - Sober Events – Therapy – Sobriety Courses – Sober Groups, Tea and loads more.</p><p>Join ‘The Give Up Club’ on <a href="http://www.cuppa.community/">www.Cuppa.community</a> if you’re questioning your alcohol intake. Hamish will be logging his sober journey on there, Mankini and all. Please be sure to email us any weird and wonderful challenges you have come up with. Answer the question - What is one thing that you would never, ever do sober?</p><p>Check out the 'CUPPA Playlist - Happy Sobriety Tunes' on Spotify.</p><p>Blog - Choosing Days Over Nights - https://www.drunkmummysobermummy.com/post/choosing-days-over-nights Vic’s blog.</p><p>@soberawkward @drunkmummysobermummy @cuppa.community @hamishadamscairns</p><p>If you are struggling with your relationship with alcohol please reach out to your local doctor, a therapist, AA Group or just chat to a close friend. Don’t feel shame, just get the help you deserve.</p><p>Contact us! If you have a topic you’d like us to cover then please email us -vicandhamish@soberawkward.com</p><p>Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and rate the podcast on iTunes <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/sober-awkward/id1565657975">https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/sober-awkward/id1565657975</a></p><p>The more people we reach the more people we can help x</p><p>#soberawkward #novaentertainment #soberawkwardpodcast #drunkmummysobermummy #cuppa.community #sober #sobermom #sobermummy #sobriety #soberaf #sobermovement #sobercurious #alcoholfree #mummybloggers #writersofinsta #soberfamily #greyareadrinking #addiction #soberissexy #soberwomen #sobermomtribe #sobrietyrocks #soberlifestyle #alcoholfreelife #wedorecover #sobernation #mumblog #mentalhealth #motherhood #wineoclock #sobermums #selfcare #womeninrecovery #sobercommunity #soberdads</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p><br /><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
46:02•25 Sept 2022
Surviving Big Events Sober: Vic and Hamish's Guide to Fun Without Alcohol
“Remember your why and really drum that into yourself. That can be hard for extroverts like you and I to let somebody else take over the laughs and the dancing and allow someone else to get the glory.”
Ever wondered how to tackle a massive event without a drink in hand? Vic and Hamish from 'Sober Awkward' have got you covered. In this episode, they dive into the anxiety-inducing world of attending big events sober. Think New Year’s Eve parties, festivals, and even Mardi Gras – all without the crutch of alcohol. Sounds daunting, right?
But Vic and Hamish are here to share their own hilarious and sometimes cringe-worthy experiences to show you it’s not only possible but can be enjoyable too. They kick things off by acknowledging the initial dread that comes with the thought of being the only sober person at a party. Vic recalls feeling out of place while everyone else got progressively more inebriated, while Hamish talks about the pressure to join in on the fun.
But don't worry, they’ve got plenty of tips to help you keep your cool and actually have a good time. One key takeaway is the importance of positive thinking and reframing your mindset. Instead of focusing on what you're missing out on, Vic and Hamish suggest concentrating on the positives of staying sober – like remembering the entire night and waking up without a hangover.
They also emphasize the power of having a 'why' – a personal reason that keeps you committed to your sober journey. Throughout the episode, they sprinkle in their trademark humor with stories that range from getting caught in awkward situations to almost blowing a finger off with a firework. These anecdotes not only entertain but also remind you that you're not alone in feeling awkward at times.
For those new to sobriety, Vic and Hamish offer practical advice on how to prepare for big events. From having a game plan to finding sober allies, they cover it all. They also stress the importance of building a supportive community, whether through online groups or in-person meetups. So if you’re gearing up for a big event and feeling a bit shaky about staying sober, give this episode a listen.
Vic and Hamish's blend of humor and honesty will leave you feeling more confident and ready to face any party without a drink in hand.
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