The Cult Spectrum

The Cult Spectrum

Kind Mind

and all the cults you can't see

Eye-openingInformativeHonestThought-provokingAuthentic

23:368 Aug 2026

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The Cult Spectrum: Why Everyday Life Feels More "Cult-Like" Than We Think

Episode Overview

  • Cults magnify everyday human tendencies like idealisation, belonging, and fear of losing investments, rather than being populated only by uniquely gullible people.
  • Many are drawn to alternative groups because they sense something is deeply wrong with mainstream society, not because they are defective.
  • Mystical or transcendent experiences do not prove ethical maturity; without a grounding in non-harm, they can inflate spiritual ego and justify abuse.
  • Cognitive dissonance and the sunk cost fallacy can keep people in harmful systems long after red flags appear, especially when identity and sacrifice are involved.
  • Trust in leaders – spiritual, political, or otherwise – should never be a blank cheque; keep learning, keep questioning, and "don’t seek them, seek what they sought."
"A glimpse is not a credential."

How can compelling narratives motivate and inspire others? This conversation with Michael Todd Fink leans into that question by using cults as a mirror for everyday life rather than as distant, sensational headlines. Drawing on years of contact with spiritual communities as both clinician and musician, Michael looks at cults as amplifiers of ordinary human tendencies: idealisation, belonging, sunk costs, and power imbalances.

You’ll hear him move from a light-hearted TV reference – an old episode of *What’s Happening!!* – into sharp commentary on how media stories about brainwashing often "look like they’re protecting us, but really they’re protecting power." He points out that many people are drawn to alternative communities not because something is wrong with them, but because "they sense in their bones something is wrong with mainstream society." Michael then breaks down psychological concepts like cognitive dissonance and the sunk cost fallacy, showing how they keep people locked in harmful systems – religious, political, corporate, or familial.

He asks a disarming question: instead of only asking how anyone could "drink the kool-aid", what if we ask, "How might my own behaviour… already be cult-like?" He suggests that "we're all probably somewhere on the cult spectrum", whether or not we’ve ever joined a formal group. His warning is clear: "A glimpse is not a credential." Temporary mystical experiences don’t automatically make someone ethical, and without a foundation in ahimsa, non-harm, spiritual teachers can easily slide into abuse.

Rather than simply demonising cults, he questions a wider culture that makes authoritarian belonging feel like relief. The closing reminder lands gently but firmly: trust should never be a blank cheque and "don’t seek [teachers]. Seek what they sought." If you’ve ever wondered whether your own loyalties, routines, or beliefs might sit somewhere on that spectrum, this episode might have you asking some very honest questions about who – and what – you’re really following.

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