The Four Horsemen
The Four Horsemen

Arkansas A.W.A.R.E.

In Atlas of the Heart, Brené Brown talks about “Places We Go When We Feel Wronged.” In those places we might feel things like anger, disgust, dehumanization, self-righteousness and even contempt. Contempt, my friends, is one of Gottman’s Four...

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Arkansas A.W.A.R.E.

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Dr. Betsy Kindall, Nicole Fairchild and Dr. Stacy Moore discuss Arkansas A.W.A.R.E. - a project to Advance Wellness And Resiliency in Education. Project A.W.A.R.E. is a grant program funded by S.A.M.H.S.A. (the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration). Betsy is an educator, a licensed school counselor and the Statewide Coordinator for Arkansas A.W.A.R.E. She has worked in Arkansas schools for nearly 20 years. Nicole is a Licensed Professional Counselor who has worked in schools for about 10 years. She is the project manager at one of the Arkansas A.W.A.R.E.. remote sites. Stacy is a Behavior Support Specialist/School Psychologist with Arkansas A.W.A.R.E. and has been working in Arkansas schools over 15 years. They love working together and this podcast is a result of the creative energy synthesized through their conversations about mental health awareness. They begin by sharing a little about their previous work background and goals for this podcast series. In subsequent episodes, they focus on individual topics related to school culture and mental health. Their conversations are as witty and entertaining as they are informative. They share touching personal stories and address real-life situations that will help enable every listener to become more A.W.A.R.E. of the world around them. The episodes in this series are generally less than ten minutes long, but are packed with valuable information and commentary that will leave you wanting more! New episodes are scheduled for release weekly, every Monday. This project is dedicated to Advancing Wellness and Resiliency in Education. Please feel free to subscribe to this podcast and join us as we strive to help everyone become more A.W.A.R.E.! Website: https://dese.ade.arkansas.gov/Offices/learning-services/school-health-services/arkansas-aware Produced by Donnie Lee Music: https://www.purple-planet.com More information: https://dese.ade.arkansas.gov/Offices/communications/dese-podcasts

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Tackling Toxic Classroom Dynamics: The Four Horsemen of Education

“Contempt, my friends, is one of Gottman’s Four Horsemen. The Four Horsemen are indicators of a corroding relationship. The other three are Criticism, Defensiveness and Stonewalling.”

Ever felt the sting of criticism or the icy wall of defensiveness in a school setting? In this episode of Arkansas A.W.A.R.E., hosts Dr. Betsy Kindall, Nicole Fairchild, and Dr. Stacy Moore dive into the thorny issues of contempt, criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling—known as Gottman's Four Horsemen. These behaviors can wreak havoc on relationships within educational environments, corroding trust and collaboration among students and educators alike.

With their usual blend of wit and wisdom, the trio dissects these toxic dynamics and offers practical strategies to counteract them. By fostering vulnerability and coaching, they aim to create a culture of safety and trust. Whether you're a teacher, administrator, or just someone invested in educational mental health, this episode is packed with valuable insights and actionable advice.

Tune in for a candid discussion that tackles the tough questions: Are these destructive behaviors lurking in your classroom or school culture? And more importantly, how can you address them effectively?

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