The Minor League: Family Relationship Building

The Minor League: Family Relationship Building

Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey? This chat between Savannah Robinson and her dad, Coach Blu, takes a fresh angle by zooming in on the “home team” – the family – and how those relationships can make or break recovery. Recorded on the go, the episode has a relaxed, chatty feel, with car noises in the background and plenty of real-life examples.

Savannah and Coach Blu talk honestly about parent–child power struggles, especially that old favourite: “Because I said so.” They argue that a simple “no” with no explanation quickly loses its impact, while even a small honest reason builds trust. As Savannah puts it, a parent saying “I just don’t want the noise here” is still an answer the child can work with.

They share stories of conflict, overreactions, and awkward apologies – including the day Boston was accidentally left at church, and Father’s Day turned into a lesson in owning mistakes.

Coach Blu admits how hard it is for parents to say sorry, but insists it’s worth it: “I’m not afraid anymore to apologise to anyone if I’ve made a mistake, if that makes the relationship stronger.” The conversation also touches on heavier moments, like Savannah standing up to a predator as a 12-year-old and later telling a judge she refused to be called a victim.

Her ability to say “no” traces back to being allowed to say no at home, even to her dad. Throughout, they keep circling back to communication, apologies, and balancing independence with support – especially relevant for families affected by addiction, where tensions can run high and trust is fragile.

If you’ve ever found yourself in a parent/child stalemate, or wondered how to repair family bonds while working on sobriety, this one might spark some honest conversations at your own kitchen table.