The Minor League: How to Talk to Teens

The Minor League: How to Talk to Teens

Ever wondered what it takes to actually have a real conversation with a teenager without it turning into a lecture or a shouting match? This chat between 15-year-old host Savannah Robinson and her dad, therapist and addiction counsellor Blu Robinson, gives a front-row seat to how that can look in everyday family life. The episode focuses on one big question: how do parents talk to teens about difficult topics in a way that keeps the relationship intact?

You’ll hear them break down practical ideas like creating one‑to‑one, distraction‑free moments, avoiding endless repetitive lectures, and swapping closed questions like “Do you have homework?” for open ones such as “What was weird or funny today?” Blu sums up his approach with the line, “Nothing I have on my agenda is more important than to make sure that you guys know that you're being heard.” They also talk about parents admitting when they don’t know something, inviting teens into family decisions, and sharing family values without forcing them.

Drawing on Erik Erikson’s idea of identity versus role confusion, Blu explains why the teenage years are naturally opinionated, emotional and occasionally dramatic. Savannah brings the teen point of view, sharing stories from school, lifeguard training and friendships to show what actually feels safe and respectful from a young person’s side.

Savannah gives honest examples of how being listened to as a child built her confidence, from choosing houses and holidays to handling heavy topics like racism, protests and difficult teachers. This episode is especially helpful for parents in recovery or families affected by addiction who want stronger, calmer communication at home. It offers down‑to‑earth, sometimes funny, sometimes serious conversation that shows you what mutual respect between parent and teen can actually sound like.

Which of these simple changes could you try in your next chat with a young person?